It took nearly two years in the industry but I am excited to finally be doing an appearance in my hometown tonight! San Diego is not the porn capital that cities like San Francisco and Los Angeles are but there are plenty of people who I’m sure appreciate the industry and it’s performers and I’m glad we have a local event to feature talent. I will be at the San Diego Eagle for “STUD Night with the BAD BoyZ of Porn” from 10:30pm till midnight. There will be a question and answer session, DVD giveaways (I’m bringing films from my work with Raging Stallion, Mustang, Hot House and Titan), a meet and greet and autograph signing. There may even be a special appearance by my man, Tristan Jaxx. Further details and promotions can be found on San Diego Eagle’s Facebook event page for the night. As I’ve always said, my favorite part about being in this industry is getting to meet and interact with the true fans and those who appreciate porn. I hope to see lots of you there. Free muscle hugs for all!
I’ve been nominated to be the next Fleshjack Boy! If you’ve never heard of a Fleshjack or what they are used for, check out this link for lots of examples.
I have owned a Fleshjack myself for many years now and, personally, I think it’s the next best thing to sex with a real human. It can produce some pretty intense orgasms and the feeling of sliding inside and stroking until you unload is pretty unique.
The winners will have their mouth, hole and cock molded and featured in personalized toys to be sold on their website. To entice you to vote for me, I’ve included a few pics of me using my Fleshjack, as well as what I like to do with the results.
This year, they’re allowing people to vote three times. I’d appreciate it if you’d do all three:
- Click “VOTE FOR ME” under my image at this page. Insert your email address and click “SUBMIT VOTE.”
- Click this link to “Like” my Facebook voting page (you must be logged in to Facebook first).
- Click this link to use Twitter to tweet that you want me to win (you must be logged in to Twitter first). You can also make your own tweet saying you want me to win in your own way, as long as you tag my Twitter handle (@CavinKnightXXX) and include the hashtag #FleshjackBoysContest in the tweet.
I would be thrilled to represent a company whose products I personally use (and have since before I started in the porn industry) and hope you’ll help me get there! There are lots of great porn guys nominated (I know I’d like to own a few of their molds) but I’d appreciate your votes. If I win, you’ll have more chances to meet me in person as I’d be representing them at promotional events around the country. I love getting to interact with all of you so hopefully that’s some motivation to vote for me, if the chance to slide a mold of my dick inside you or penetrate a replica of my hole isn’t reason enough!
Thanks, in advance, for your votes! I’m always grateful for your support.
I am extremely honored to be nominated for three Grabby Awards this year! I received nominations as “Best Newcomer,” “Hottest Bottom,” and “Best Duo” for my scene with Johnny Hazzard in C1R’s “Take a Load Off.” I don’t expect to win but the nomination alone is recognition enough for me.
If you’re going to be in Chicago for the Grabby Awards and/or IML, here’s where you can find me:
Friday, May 25th, 2012
NakedSword’s Tim & Roma Show
3726 N. Broadway
6:00 – 9:00 PM
Saturday, May 26th, 2012
The 2012 Grabby Awards (I will be presenting)
Park West Theatre
322 W Armitage
Red carpet / doors open at 6:00 PM. Show stars at 7:30 PM.
Grabby After Party
10 PM till Close
$10 Cover. $15 at the door.
Sunday, May 27, 2012
Post Grabby Recovery Party (I am the Co-Host)
3733 N Halsted
12 – 6:00 PM
$10 Cover. $15 at the door.
IML Sunday @ Hydrate (My boyfriend, Tristan Jaxx, is spinning this party so I’ll be there with him the whole night)
3458 N Halsted
11 PM - 4:00 AM
I love meeting and chatting with fans so please do not be too shy to come up and say hello to me. Hope to see you soon!
I am very excited and proud to announce my newest endeavor; working as a co-producer with my boyfriend and our good friend Merri on the latest Tristan Jaxx Production, Climaxx, the last party on Folsom weekend. Please see our teaser vid on my YouTube page and share it with everyone you know who might be coming to Folsom weekend. We created this event for those who would like a dark, after hours closing party for the conclusion of their Folsom experience. It will have pounding beats in the form of consistently high energy dance music that you just can’t help but move to, incredible lasers and lighting, healthy, cold drinks to keep your body hydrated and a friendly, all-inclusive atmosphere with an upbeat and positive energy. I assure you that you won’t be disappointed if you join us!
“From the producers of San Francisco’s hottest new party, Chaos, comes the premier of Climaxx, the last party on Folsom weekend at 2am on 9/24. Join us as DJ Tristan Jaxx Productions takes you higher. Your final Climaxx will be at BeatBox, located in the heart of SOMA at 314 11th Street.”
The blog Books & Porn recently interviewed me for their site and the interview is now online. They always ask some unique, open-ended questions and I enjoy speaking with them. Click here to see how I got into dancing, what new scenes I have coming out, what my favorite type of scenes to shoot are, how I feel about “chemistry” in a scene, my favorite vacation spots, tv shows, food, etc.
Here is my video response to the questions I received from some of my Twitter followers/fans after reaching 15,000 followers there. Sorry about the squinting, I should have put my contacts in before I started. As always, I continue to be grateful for all the support. Keep watching and I’ll keep filming!
I’ve received my first porn award nominations! I received nominations for “Favorite Newcomer” as well as “Performer of the Year.” I am extremely happy about the “Favorite Newcomer” nomination and extremely flattered by the “Performer of the Year” nomination. To be included among such awesome performers as Samuel Colt, Adam Killian, Spencer Reed, and Brent Everett is definitely a huge honor that I do not take lightly. A film I appeared in, Brother Fucker by C1R, is also nominated as “Must-Own Movie of the Year.”
A big thank you to Erik and the entire TLA nominating committee. They have been big supporters from the start and I really appreciate their acknowledgment of my efforts in the industry over the past year. I don’t expect or need to win, a nomination is all the acknowledgment I require.
If you feel I have earned it, please click here to vote for me. To cast your ballot, simply click on my image (sample below) in the “Favorite Newcomer” and “Performer of the Year” categories (the text underneath my image will take you to my page at TLA Gay, where you can view and purchase all of my films). When you’re all done, click the big VOTE button at the bottom of the page. Feel free to vote as many times as you’d like (especially if you really, really like me and my work ). Your last chance to vote is March 31, 2012 at 11:59pm ET. Award-winners will be announced April 15, 2012. Voting is open to everyone.
Thank you, in advance, for your votes!
Calling all London/UK fans! My sexy man, Tristan Jaxx, and me are taking over Gigolo Disco in London next week!
Gigolo Disco is a weekly event in London’s Soho district, held at Shadow Lounge. I’m hosting the event on Wednesday, February 22nd, which goes from 10pm until 3am. Tristan will be spinning his dark and sexy beats from midnight till 3AM.
Tristan and me both have scenes on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday next week (I’m shooting two scenes and a solo with Men At Play, Tristan is shooting with HardBritLads and Butch Dixon) and we decided we wanted to do an appearance while we are there so we can meet our UK fans. As I’ve said before, my favorite part of being a porn actor is the social aspect: getting to meet and interact with all of you. I hope if you’re anywhere in the area that you’ll come out and say hello.
This will be Tristan’s first time in Europe so I’m excited to show him around a bit. I try to get to Europe at least once a year and really love it over there so it will be fun to share one of my passions with him, like he has done with his music for me. He’s excited to get to spin while there. We’re staying in London through the 29th (with a day trip to Paris on the 28th) and I’m sure we’ll take lots of photos to share with all of you when we get back.
Hope to see some of you there. Please don’t be shy, come say hi!
Yes, it’s official, DJ/Promoter/Producer/Porn Star/Goofball/Sexy Stud Tristan Jaxx and I are dating! We have known each other since meeting on the set of the first film I ever shot, Mustang’s Fit For Service, in September 2010. Tristan was there to film his first scene as a bottom with Tom Wolfe and he was quite nervous. I remember trying to comfort him, give him tips and tell him he’d be fine. They shot their scene directly after mine and I sat with Erik Rhodes as he directed their scene. The following weekend was the GayVN awards and Folsom Street Fair and I was back up in San Francisco for them. It was at the GayVN after party that he finally made his move on me. I don’t recall all the details of what we talked about (it was an open bar, after all), but I remember being unable to take my eyes off his lips and loving how “real” he was and how often he smiled and laughed. It was enough to get me to ask him to come back to my hotel with me. After a long, flirtatious walk (where he told me about his true passion: music), we spent the better part of that night/morning having sex on the bathroom floor (how porn star of us). His lips (and everything else) felt as good as I had hoped they would.
In January 2011, I was asked to shoot my second scene for Lucas Entertainment and they offered Tristan as my scene partner. I didn’t hesitate to accept. I flew to New York City for the scene and it was on that set that I really started to gain an interest in him as a person. I was keenly aware of how he never spoke unless he had something genuine to say, he didn’t criticize or gossip, he listened and observed people very acutely and his passion for music became even more apparent to me. I had already begun listening to his podcasts at that point and knew he had potential, but it was on this trip that I realized that he had what it takes to become a significant force in the dance music scene. After our scene, we spent some of our free time together in the city and exchanged phone numbers because by then, I knew he was someone I wanted to get close to and know better.
From then on, we began texting each other infrequently, often about his music. I took a strong interest in his progression and growth as a DJ because I was impressed with how quickly he was honing his skills and how much his podcasts improved with each new release (I subscribed and listened to them almost exclusively at the gym while I worked out and have been known to dance naked to them in my living room as well ). Music has always been something I’m passionate about as well and it’s sort of the thread that weaves through my life and tells my story so we shared this common interest. The more we shared with each other, the more I became fond of him and the more I believed in him. I started trying to increase his exposure by tweeting about his mixes, sharing his podcasts, etc. because I genuinely love his music and felt he deserved to succeed and I know what it’s like to be the underdog. He hasn’t always had the greatest support from the porn community and I knew that, unfortunately, there would be a bias about his talents because he did porn for many years before he began pursuing a career as a DJ and many would assume his pursuits were out of necessity instead of passion. I wanted to help expose him to the world not only because he’s a brilliant artist with a really good ear for well-produced music and the rather unusual ability to find and/or produce songs that have a signature sound that is entirely his, but also because I felt he was one of the most sincere, genuine, honest, kind people I had met in the circuit scene or in the porn scene. As I’ve often said, I was a Tristan Jaxx groupie before I fell in love with him and I’d have helped him in any way I could even if we had never ended up dating.
After spending some more time with him at Folsom, I was booked to shoot a scene with Dario Beck for Titan in San Francisco in October 2011. Rather than stay in a hotel, I asked Tristan if it would be okay if I stayed with him as he had asked me to dance at the event he had just created the month before, Chaos, during that same trip. I hadn’t exactly started to think of him romantically yet but I knew there was something about him that had me completely intrigued and I wanted to get to know him better, in whatever capacity. I stayed with him for four nights while dancing and shooting and it was on this trip that I started to notice that I had feelings for him that were much deeper than I had acknowledged before. When I left at the end of the trip, I felt strangely sad and a little awkward. Suddenly, this guy I had become very fond of and had spent so much time with was on my mind a lot. I started to think about how much fun we always had together and how there was never any drama, no awkwardness or uncomfortable feelings, just lots of laughs, good times, amazing sex, good energy and contentment. I wasn’t quite sure how to act or speak with him afterward. I didn’t want to change how great everything was but I couldn’t deny that I was feeling something more for him. Finally, I revealed my feelings. After talking about it a bit, we agreed that we weren’t going to ruin it with any titles or expectations and that we would just carry on as we had been. “So far, so good,” is what Tristan kept saying.
A few weeks later, I flew back up to San Francisco to attend the next month’s Chaos because I enjoyed the previous one so much. Two weeks after that, I was back again. I just couldn’t stay away, regardless of what we were or were not calling ourselves. Two more weeks after that, I was booked to shoot with Jesse Santana for Raging Stallion in San Francisco. I arrived in the evening on November 30th and after another fun night full of a thoughtful meal, laughs, and mind-blowing sex, Tristan and I lay giggling and smiling, his arm stretched around my shoulders. Suddenly, he turned and looked at me, stretched out his hand and said, “who are we kidding? This is awesome. Wanna be my man?” Without hesitation, I grabbed his hand, shook it, then pulled him in close for our first kiss as partners. Only those who know what a rational, yet completely adorable and sweet, goofball he is will understand how appropriate and funny this exchange was.
We discussed how to tell all of you about our relationship but hadn’t decided on how to do so yet. To be honest, I really wanted him to announce it because I had kinda been pursuing him for awhile at that point and he sort of made me chase him, something I have never done before as I tend to prefer to be the one being pursued. Looking back, I realize my obsession with him was probably painfully obvious to everyone (including my Twitter followers) but him. In the early evening on the day I returned to San Diego from that trip, Tristan posted this tweet and literally took my breath away by creating and sharing this mashup of one of my favorite Mariah Carey songs, Emotions. I cannot think of a better way to have been announced to be his than by having a track by my hero and favorite artist mixed into a high energy dance track by my favorite DJ and boyfriend. Tristan communicates better with music than just about anything but sex (there is no comparison to the matched passion and rhythms we share in bed) and I received his message loud and clear. “You’ve got me feeling emotions. Deeper than I’ve ever dreamed of. You’ve got me feeling emotions. Higher than the heavens above.” The feeling is entirely mutual and I can’t think of a better day for me to tell the world than today. “You know the way to make me lose control. When you’re looking into my eyes, you make me feel so high.”
Thank you all for your enthusiastic and supportive response to our relationship. From Gay Porn Blog’s excited post about it, the Facebook messages, the emails and the Twitter replies, we’ve had nothing but support sent our way. I must admit that it’s a bit strange starting a relationship in the public eye (a first for me) but it’s also exciting and even comforting, in a way, knowing that our fans are happy for us and enjoy following our journey.
I’ll leave you with some pictures we had taken together by the incomparable Ninon Nguyen at my condo here in San Diego when Tristan came to spend the holidays with me. Hope you enjoy them as much as we have. They contain a lot of genuine, candid depictions (Tristan playfully pushing me away because I was being too “sappy,” me smelling his armpit [it's an intoxicating aroma], etc.) of how we are as a couple and I couldn’t be happier to share them with all of you. Today and always, cherish those who make you feel emotions that keep you “flyin’ high!”